Make own Choices

Every day, we make hundreds of choices. We choose what to wear, what to do when we get home from work or school, and how to respond when someone makes fun of us. Sometimes we also make big decision, such as what kind of school to go to, what career to pursue, whether to get married, and whether to have a child.

Sometimes people make decisions that are even bigger than these because the decisions affect hundreds or millions of people - decisions about war and peace or about changes in the laws. Even if we ourselves don't make such big decisions, we need to understand how they are made.

Most of the time, we make these choices without thinking. For small, routine choices such as how to respond when your friend starts a conversation with you, you do not need to think. You have learned how to talk and how to behave in a friendly way without thinking at all, and your habits serve you well. You could behave differently than you do, of course, but your behavior is probably fine as it is.

In other cases, though, you THINK about your decisions, from what to wear in the morning to how to spend your money. Sometimes people make choices without thinking when they really ought to think a bit. For example, we sometimes say things that hurt people's feelings and then we feel bad for having said them.

The purpose of this story is to help you improve your decision making. It will teach you WHEN it is worth thinking about decisions and, mostly, HOW to think about them once you start thinking.

There was a family. There were four members. They were a man lived with his wife and two daughters. They lived in a town with their relatives. 

Their both daughters were studying . one was in primary school and the other was in higher secondary. Both were not good in studying, but the elder daughter used to work hard to acquire good marks in all exams taken by their class and in other hand the other was in doom and ill.

Their father used to work in a national governmental sector. As the Higher Secondary exam for Boards were nearing, so the time came for tests. The elder daughter prepared for the test for her higher secondary exam and when the date appeared for exams she gave it and got good marks. In other hand the students of primary school will pass and go the the secondary school, where the other daughter could not able to manage it, she was continuously falling ill, which made their parents consult with a doctor.

In the other hand the elder daughter was enjoying for acquiring good marks with her friends in an expensive restaurant without even informing her parents about the expenses where in other hand the parents got the sad for her daughter chronic disease. As per daughter consultation twenty five lakhs money needed to heal her daughter completely, they don't how to get those twenty-five lakhs. So they took loan from bank and also from Kabuliwallah, like these, like these few years passed.

After acquiring all the money i.e. twenty-five lakhs their parents took her to the doctor and cured her from the disease. They took her home and treated her to be more strong physically and mentally. Now the elder passed her first semester and was spending good time with her new friends. The head of the family cleared the loan of Kabulliwallah within one year. But it is more harder to clear the loan of the bank.

He had been clearing loan of bank for 2 years. Like these he fall sick and got blood pressure. His wife could understand that his health deteriorating day by day, so she took good care of him. He continuously cleared interests of bank. One of the day he got threatened by the goons to clear all dues, they took them to the bank and their he paid all the interests but still it is difficult for him to clear the dues. Then after few days lawyers came to came to consult with him about money.

His elder daughter used to help him with some amount of money which she would get from salary of a part time job. As he would gather some money he gave that to the bank for clearing interest.

But yet still interests are there to clear.

Then after few more days he was prisoned in jail. Beware of all these his smaller daughter chose to request his uncles to help her with some money for clearing the bank loan in the footsteps of her mother and her elder sister. She requested for it. But her two of his three uncles denied this, but one of them helped her to clear the interests and clear all the dues.

After that both of the daughters gathered money with the help of their mother, what they have saved for their own expenses for the bail to release their father. They brought their father but their father was suffering from piles.His family appointed doctor for his treatment. The doctor said it needed some operation which meant money expenses i.e. twenty to thirty lakhs.

Knowing of future circumstances she started doing job in a private company. Soon she would able to gather up money for his father's treatment with the help of her sister. After her father cured of all this bloodthirsty diseases, marriage offer came for her elder sister.

The junior daughter chose to find the best invitation for her sister with her parents as per choice of her sister. As she chose one, the smaller daughter arranged all the necessities that are valuable for a wedding ceremony an also she arranged for a video film.

After few months their younger daughter marriage offers came where there are too senior. She denied all. Then after a less more than one more relationships came which ignored. She chose to marry after the age of thirty-five.

Before that she chose to take care of her parents and for serving the nation in future to she will join an ashram.