it was in secondary school when all this occurred :
being a top achiever . he has always gotten good grades since schooling but everything change when he went up to secondary schools :
he disrupted classes , made teachers helpless and never gotten good grades , it all seem like a broken teen .
it was not all that devastating , he only realized after some time it was burn out in a student's life.
he actually got burned while in higher streams during primary school , there was no reward being in a higher stream even though getting good grades for all subjects .
So after graduating primary schools , he got good grades , all As in every subjects but it came when he turn up for secondary school ....
he could not tolerate schooling life anymore , he was in a good class but he had gotten fed up with his good results .
it was like never ending studies for him , he wanted a way out .
he joined street gangs , picked up smoking and gotten into fights for what reasons .... nobody knows .
He wanted to go to jail to avoid turning up for schools .
He was very unhappy with schools life but he was helpless .
everyday seems like a drag for him , turning up and leaving helplessly for schools .
the final straws came when he got arrested and was placed in lock up cell in the police station . I don't wanna dwell on the reason , but it was something violent and big scaled .
He finally got what he wanted , he was asked to leave schools .
the funny issues was that his dad had not given up on him but instead went round looking for schools for him to attend .
after numerous attempt , he finally gotten a neighborhood school.
that was a funny year , he again gotten all As for his examination. He could no longer tolerate getting good results for his studies anymore .
he chose to leave school after this but .....
he was awarded cash incentives for impressive results. the letter came and he was awarded cash incentives for impressive academic results . he was to attend the distribution ceremony .
It came and he was awarded some incentives for pleasant results.
the letter practically changed his life .
He did not expect to be awarded , he just wanted to left schools.
He left schools and went out to work even though he got flying colors for his examination .
he could no longer tolerate life in schools and all the As he gotten .
school's life was stifling , boring and unpleasant .
he was involved in numerous illegal activities just to get out of life in schools .
the letter awarded was practically a boost in his life , it came timely ... cos by then he got arrested every now and then ....
it reminds him that every little things u do everyday will chalk up to something massive at the end of it .
Cultivate good habits and become a better person by the end .
to be thrifty , you can saved a lot at the end of the day .
take care of the little things in life & the big ones will take care of themselves ...
effort , discipline and patience runs a long way if u wanna achieve in Life .
anyway , a piece of advice : Do not run a restaurant theme business , you will incur heavy losses at the end of it . Do anything but avoid running a restaurants .
the crimes he gotten into :
Stealing
Rioting
involved as a secret society member
the amount of fights he gotten into was ........
he picked up smoking even though he was not of a legal age
most of the people around him were all secret society members and a number of them was taking party drugs on and off .
some taking heroin and other drugs ....
it was a common sight for him to see all these stuffs back then
he mingled around the red light district since at a tender age ,
fights was common for him .
he understand the meaning of LOVE ,
his mother , no matter what grades he gotten , she will always love him .
His father . never give up in him and scrambled around looking for schools for him , he believed in Him.
He understand that no matter what happened to him , his parents are always there for him . They have some strong bonds ..
back then , grading was all happening in schools and there was not even computer and internet .
He lazed around all day , avoiding homework and disrupt schools ...
He only knew hanging out with his friends @ billiard salons ...
but deep inside he wanted to settle down and be a responsible father , til today he is still trying to have a fixed income and set up a family for himself .
he has been doing this since he left schools at 16 , the letter boosted his life ... !
to him success seems like , a happy family and a happy home .
Its not how big the home is , it is how happy the home is .
he emerged an experience person after all this work since he left schools ... i think he is getting the hang of it .
Even though he is not that rich nowadays but he learn to learn during his free time . He knows at least 12 languages nowadays and avoid the pits fall while investing .
he just shows that if u put in effort , the reward shall be yours .
Nothing comes free in Life . a little a day goes a long way ......
U reap what u sow ...
He still believes in hard work rather than smart working , can be a bit stubborn at times but ... He is this way .... lol
he believes in isolated learning , he read 200 books a year .... lolz
the night he spent in lock up and the letter kind of 'told' him not to stop learning .
Always be better than yesterday ...
Learn to be a better human every single day ....
if possible , try not to make yourself idle ,
an idle mind is a devil's playground .
Be a bit purposeful in Life to stay healthy .
Healthy mind healthy body , Health always come first
with Health , comes wealth .
stay purposeful everyone ...
Sign off ,
Zhou
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