Creative Boss Lady (CBL)

Creative Boss Lady (CBL)

I was inside the shop when I heard a young damsel telling her girlfriend “If any dude that has no money comes my way, I will keep him silent.” Placing emphasis on her speech, she was 45% right. Because these days, no damsel want to date a “broken-pauper” (BP) anymore! And any dude who is indigent isn’t qualified to approach a damsel this day according to present day “Manner of Dating System” from girl’s perspective, which is “Pessimist-System”. Well, that’s the psyche of most damsels, and it is a deceased mindset.

A dude is financially flattened today doesn’t indicate a conclusive signature he will be indigent forever. But due to the “Frivolous-Perspectives” of many young damsels, this has been the barrenness of livelihood where most ladies missed their rightful dudes. Fame, luxurious lifestyle, and excessive cash dude, that’s what many damsels crave after! It is a “Good-Idea” to date or marry a dude who is already doing well. I am not against it, please don’t get me wrong. But sometimes, “Already-Made” dude don’t value luxurious damsels without a dream. Dudes of this day’s value damsel with a dream and a future. 70% of present day damsels value flirting lifestyle rather than creating a securing future. Life isn’t really predicting. Because some dudes might wake up someday, turn against their damsel and chase her out or mistreat her because the damsel wasn’t there with him when he was striving hard to make it. In the opposite; the kind of damsel who really enjoys her dude in matrimony is the lady who stood and plan with her dude when he has “Nothing-Worth-Much” (NWM) to show. But figuratively sounding a clear “Red-Signal” to some dudes; “Never turn against a woman who helped you to become a financial super-hero.”

        Back to her speech, although she was 45% right, but there are contradictions. Damsels searching for rich dudes don’t have “Optimistic Plans” and that’s why most dudes takes an advantage of them venereal and dump them aside because they were really after money not for true love. Most damsels; the picture of their future are blank because they are only concern with the immediate! And they themselves do not want to think of how to take responsibility for their lives. Note: It is not only a “damsel’s belle” that counts in this century. It involves their creativity also. Consider this, what if the dudes decide “they will not date or marry an indigent girl from a pauper background!” What are the indigent damsels going to do? But dudes are not selective about family’s financial status of a damsel. What matter to dudes is the quality of a damsel.

        Also, most of these damsels that are in search of rich dudes are those from pauper lineage. Poor background produces poor mentality! And a poor mentality is only looking for already-made. Because they don’t want to join in the “Making-Process”! But I deeply “Salute” damsels that are creative, and due to their productivity, they don’t lack or search for rich dudes on the streets about. They are very courageous and diligent with their endeavor, but the uncreative damsels aren’t diligent, they are void of endeavor.

       Moreover, damsels searching for rich dudes lacks futuristic glimpse of plans, creative agenda and positive focus. And as a result, they procrastinate, doing nothing or looking for where it is happening. And once they see a party or a dude with a flashing mobility, their day or moment is blessed. But it is not supposed to be so! Get up young damsels, take chances of opportunities around you and do something meaningful to change your standard of living. Do not become a “Cheap-Toy” to the dudes all because you want a rich young man. You don’t have to play the game of a “Doggy-Style” because you want a “Fat-Bone”. Protect your image and place value on your dignity. You can become rich damsel, if you are challenged, optimistic and determined to do your own creative or innovative business. And so doing, dudes will place “Undeniable-Value” on you instead of molesting your personality. Asides, this is your world ladies, explore it, become a “Creative Boss Lady” (CBL) and able dudes will seek after you, not mere dudes with butter and bread.

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                                             Dudes places undeniable value on     

                                                             creative damsels.       

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       Another “Chaotic-Motive” with present day damsels is that they want to marry on a “Fast-Run” without having a hand job, business or a degree. As a damsel, you need to discover your purpose too. Maybe you might be a singer, writer, pastor, entrepreneur or a career woman with a degree to change your world as a doctor, accountant, lawyer and a militant etc. There are multiple purposes that reside in every human but many never discovered it. There is a woman I like so much, J.K Rowling, the author of Harry Potter. She discovered her purpose of writing and through her gift of writing she became a billionaire.

As a damsel, you have to be reasonable with the pattern of life you are living, because there is a “Seed of Fate” inside of you, which you have to protect and nurture to bear "Destiny's Fruit". You are a “Born Rich Lady” for yourself; you were designed by your Creator to become a “Wealthy Damsel”, then, stop looking for rich dudes. If you belong to those kinds of damsels, Change your psyche. You are more qualified than that "Behavioral Perceptive Domain". And what to become a resourceful damsel of your own, if you wish – is already inside of you. Allow your instinct to bring them out. So work dutifully as a young lady! And don’t base your belief system on the superstition; that all you need to survive is a rich dude. The world system is fast changing, so follows the dynamic process to become the “Born Rich Lady” you were created to be.

Again, stop basing your topic of discussion about rich dudes. That’s what most campus damsels talk about. And that’s not your life assignment. As a young lady, you need to become inspiring to others rather than diminishing. You need to become a "Positive Topic Domain" to your generation so that other damsels can emulate you and become realistic about their existence. Create a mark of responsibility which other damsels have not yet created. The power to create it lives in you. Search them out… You are created with numerous talents or gifts inside of you to “Make a Mark”. Stand-out and be uncommon from what is common with these present-day damsels. Have a “Dream-Purpose” for yourself and don’t sell your integrity!