Choose the field

Dear Mackenzie,

I have meticulously crafted this letter to ensure it reaches you at just the right moment. It is absolutely imperative that I share this message with you now. The life we are living—filled with joy, love, and endless possibilities—began with a single, seemingly small choice made on this very day. That choice, though it may have seemed insignificant at the time, set the course for everything that followed.

I know you might be feeling uncertain, standing at a crossroads, wondering which path to take. It’s easy to get caught up in the idea that the big decisions, the ones that are obvious and grand, are the ones that shape our lives. But often, it’s quite the opposite. More often, it is the subtle choices that have the most profound impact. Today is one of those moments. The decision you make now will ripple through your future, creating a life that is more beautiful and fulfilling than you can currently imagine.

You might not realize it yet, but this choice will lead to experiences that will define you, challenges that will strengthen you, and relationships that will nourish your soul. It will bring you to people who will love and support you in ways you never thought possible. This choice will guide you to a future filled with deep connections, personal growth, and a sense of purpose that will resonate through every aspect of your life.

So, when you’re faced with the decision in front of you, remember that it’s not just about today. It’s about the life you’re building, step by step, choice by choice. Trust in the journey ahead, and trust that the choice you make today is the right one.

You will be invited to two events. It is imperative that you decide to go to Melissa's soccer game. I know it sounds mundane, and I remember us both being terribly bored at similar events. And no, we will never know what happens at Jeanette's party, which, of course, becomes the one everyone will be talking about. But this choice is far more important than it seems. This weekend, you must choose the path that leads to the soccer field.

I understand the allure of escaping Mom's house for the entire weekend, especially when the alternative seems so much more exciting. The thought of freedom, of laughter and music, of letting loose with friends, is tempting. But today, you stand at a crossroads—one of those pivotal moments in life that shape everything that follows. People always talk about those forks in the road, but they rarely recognize them when they arrive. This is one of those moments, the kind people always write epic stories about, that epic moment when you have two decisions to make.

The soccer game might seem like a small, insignificant event. Yet, it’s not just about watching your friend chase a ball on the field. By being there, you’re supporting Melissa, who has a crush on a boy on her team. This girl is someone you want to keep around. She is like a sister to you. There will be some serious lows in your relationship, but in the end, it is very much worth it. You both will end up becoming almost like sisters, sharing a deep, amazing connection. This relationship will stand the test of time, and you will both need each other.

But beyond that, this game is where you will meet the love of your life. You will know when it happens too. It’s a sunny day, sitting on the massive expanse of grass behind the school building near Mrs. Alexander's class. The sun will be warm despite the chilly morning, and you will find yourself sitting there, blowing dandelion seeds into the air. There will be a moment when you look up, and you and this boy lock eyes, and he will smile. He is a cute boy, seemingly ordinary at first, but as soon as you lock eyes, you’ll notice something special, something that makes your heart skip a beat. His eyes, flecked with silver, will draw you in, and from that moment, your life will begin to change.

This is your future, unfolding before you, and I am here to tell you that this boy will become the most important person in your life. He will stand by your side through thick and thin, protecting your emotions, and supporting every dream, every ambition, every wild idea you dare to pursue. This person will love you deeply, in a way that transforms you, helping you grow into the person you were always meant to be.

Together, you will embark on a journey of love and discovery. You will both grow and learn from each other, and in time, you will have three beautifully imperfect, loving children who will fill your life with joy, chaos, and endless love. There is a twist. One day, this boy, who you thought you knew so well, will reveal to you that she has always been a girl. This revelation will shake you. You will mourn this boy's passing, smelling the clothes and pillow where they lay at night. However, your life experiences and your love for this person will persevere. It will bring you closer together in ways you did not think possible. Your love, tested by this moment, will prove to transcend all boundaries. You will accept her wholeheartedly, and so will your children, because love, as you will learn, is not defined by gender or sexual preference. Love is about the soul, about connection, about seeing and being seen.

Your wife will help you become who you truly are. She will stand beside you as you chase your dreams, offering unwavering support, boundless encouragement, and endless patience. She will be your best friend, your confidante, your lover, your business partner, and your therapist. She will be everything you need, and more than you ever imagined you could have. Her kindness, humor, sweetness, and attentiveness will be a balm to your soul, and yes, those eyes, with their silver flecks, will still captivate you, even after all these years.

Your wife will help you break free from the chains of your past traumas. She will listen to you without judgment, offering a safe space for you to heal. When your destructive behaviors threaten to surface, she will call you out, not out of anger, but out of love, guiding you back to the person you want to be. The ghost of your mother, which has haunted you for so long, will lose its grip on you, thanks to the strength and love of your wife. Together, you will navigate the darkest corners of your past, emerging stronger, more resilient, and more united.

Your life together will not be without its challenges. There will be lows, moments of pain and despair, times when the world seems too heavy to bear. But through it all, you will have each other. When you fall, she will be there to lift you up, cradling you in her arms, whispering words of comfort and love. And when she stumbles, you will be there to catch her, to hold her close, to remind her that together, you can overcome anything.

Your life with this person, your wife, will be filled with endless possibilities. You will create a life that is uniquely yours, shaped by your love, your dreams, and your shared experiences. There will be hurt, there will be moments of doubt, but there will also be laughter, joy, and an unbreakable bond that nothing and no one can sever.

Jeanette and Melissa are going to both approach you. You must choose the path that leads to the soccer game, to Melissa, to the boy with the silver-flecked eyes. Choose the path that leads to your future, to your wife, to a life filled with love, adventure, and the deepest connection you will ever know. This is your story, your destiny, and it all begins with that simple choice. This is the moment where our amazing life begins, and I know, without a doubt, that we’re about to embark on an incredible adventure together.