A first time parent and their new born child by Mr.Prince De-Grant Brempong.

Submitted into Contest #56 in response to: Write a day-in-the-life-story about a first-time parent and their newborn child.... view prompt

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My story is entitled A first time parent and their new born child. A first time parent seeks to adjust to life with a new born child. A mum who happens to be a first parent survived the first six weeks with a new born and there are a series a series of ups and downs for the first time parent. This is intense and then it's over and you remember it as blur. As a first time parent as a mum I resumed my new job of feeding my new born child. Also being a first time parent and a new mum, I will make it a mandate to breastfeed my new born child. The lack of sleep starts not only to catch up but overtake you and rule your life. Also on second night at home the first time parent cared so much for the new born child. Again New born Baby Bootcamp or Child camps takes care of a new born children. My first time parent prepares breakfast for the new born child. Also my first time mum or parent did alot to comfort my new born child through. breastfeeding , burping and cuddles. My first time parent feeds the new born child in the afternoon. The first time parents seeks to focus on the new born child. As a first time parent , the new born child who happens to be baby is given Baby Growth Charts of Birth to 36 months. The first time parent eats constantly during the day and sleeps alot during the night. Almost first time parents feel confident about caring for a new born child. Also do consider getting ,the help during this time which can be hectic and overwhelming. Again while in the hospital talk to experts around you. Many hospitals have first time parents who are feeding specialist or some other lactation consultants who can help you get started nursing or bottle feeding. Nurses are also a great resource to show how to burp, change and care for their new born child in instances of first time parent. During in home help, ou might want to hire a baby nurse , postpartuym doula or a responsible neighbourhood teen to help you for a short time after the birth. Also your doctor or the hospital can help you find information about in home help and might make a referral to Home Health Agencies. Again both Relatives and friends often want to help too. As a first time parent when you disagree on certain things don't dsmiss that experience. When you have other concerns don't feel guilty about placing restrictions on visitors. Also as a first time parent spending time around newborns ,their fragility may be intimidating. It should be noted that as first time parent wash your hands or use a hand sanitizer before handling your baby or your new born child. Most newborns are noted not to have a strong immune system yet they are at risk for some infection. Also make sure that as a first time parent everyone who handles your baby has clean hands A first time parent must be able to support the baby's head and neck. Also cradle the head when carrying your baby or when you lay your baby down. Also never shake your newborn whether in play or bleeding in the brain and even death as a first time parent. When you need to wake your infant don't do it by shaking instead tickle your baby's feet or do blow gently on a cheek. Again makesure your baby is securely fastened into the carrier, stroller or a car seat. Limit almost any activity that could be too rough or bouncy. During the caring of babies or new born child by the first time parent ,Bonding and Soothing is probably one of the most pleasurable parts of infant care , which happens during the sensitive time in the first hours and days after birth when parents make a deep connection with their infant. Physical closeness of first time parent can help promote an emotional connection. For the newborn child,the attachment contributs to their emotional growth which also affects their development in other areas such as physical growth. Another way to think of bonding is falling in love with your baby. A first time parent must begin bonding by cradling their baby and gently stroking him or her in different patterns. The newborn child especially those of medical problems may respond to infant massage. Certain types of massage may enhance bonding and help with infant growth and development. However, babies are not as adults so massage your new born child gently. A first time parent needs to stimulate the new born born child by infants hearing. Also swaddling seems to work well for some new born child during their first weeks is another soothing technique that first time parents should practice. The habit of proper swaddling keeps a baby's arm close the body while allowing for some movement of legs. Swaddling does not keep a baby warm but it seems to give them a sense of security and comfort. However, Swaddling may help limit the startle reflex which can wake a baby. A first time parent needs to use cloth or disposable diapers. Also before diapering your baby make sure you have all the suppliers within reach. The first time parent should give their new born child a sponge bath until the circumcision heals within one to two weeks ,the umbilical cord falls off and heals. A first time parent must bath their baby. Sponge bath your baby and wipe eyes with a wash cloth. Diaper and dress your baby. Also Tub baths the new born child baths must must be gentle and brief. Have a sponge bath for a week or two. Undress your new born child as a first time parent and place him or her in water immediately in a warm room to prevent chill's. Speaking gently slowly lower your baby up to the chest into the tub. Gently massage the rest of your baby's body with water and a small amount of soap. Also a first time parent when bathing your new born child never leaves the baby alone. Do wrap the baby in a towel and take him or her with you. A first time parent must take proper care of Umbilical cord. Circumcision and Umbilical cord care is also done by the first time parent .The redness or irritation of the penis should heal within a few days but in instances where redness or swelling increases or when pus-fillied blisters form, infection may be present and you call and contact your doctor immediately. Also the Umbilical cord care in the new born child is also important. Doctors suggest swabbing the area of the Umbilical cord with alcohol until the cord stump dries up and falls off. Again an infant navel area should be submerged in water until the cord stump falls off and the area is healed . When ir falls off,the cord stump will change colour from yellow to brown or black which is normal . A first time parent should also have the time and cultivate the habit of feeding and burping the newborn child.. The feeding of the baby or the new or the new born child is done mainly by breast or a bottle you may be stumped as to how often to do so. It is also recommended that newborn children or babies should be fed on demand whenever they seem hungry . A new born baby or child needs to be fed every two or three hours. When breastfeeding the baby or child give your baby the chance to nurse about ten to fifteen minutes at each breast. In instances where a first time parent is formula feeding the baby or the new born child ,the newborn child will most likely take about 2-3 ounces at each feeding. The newborn child must be awakened every few hours to make sure they get enough to eat. When formula feeding your new born child you can easily monitor if your baby is getting enough to eat. Also a first time parent must notice whether the breasts feels full before feeding the baby and less full after feeding. The new born child and babies often swallow air during feeding which can make them fussy. Also to help prevent this try burping your baby every 2-3 ounces of your bottle feed and each time you switch breasts when you breastfeed. When your baby tends to be gassy has it occurs in gastroesophageal reflux or seems fussy during feeding try burping your little one after every ounce during bottle feeding . A first time parent must try these burping tips. Among them includes Hold your baby upright with his or her head on your shoulder. Sit your baby on your lap. Lay your baby face down on your lap. Also always burp your body or newborn child when feeding time is over, then keep him or her in an upright position for at least ten to fifteen minutes to avoid spitting up. As a first time parent you may notice that your new born child or baby sleeps every minute of the day actually sleeps about 16 hours or more. Almost all. newborn children or babies sleep for periods 2 to 4 hours . The digestive system of babies is so small that they need nourishment every few hours and should be awakened if they haven't been fed for 4 hours. Almost all newborn children or babies sleep through the Night between 6 to 8 hours at 3 months of age. Likewise when they do not sleep it is not a cause for concern. Like most Adults babies must develop their sleeping patterns and cycles. However when your newborn child is gaining weight and appears healthy do not dispair. Again it is important to always place babies on their backs to sleep to reduce the risk of SIDS ,Sudden Infant Death Syndrome. A first time parent must alternate the position of the baby's head from first right ,then left to prevent the development of a flat spot in one side of the head. Finally ,I will conclude that the newborn child may tend to be more awake alert at Night and more sleepy during the day . A first time parent must always keep stimulation at night to a minimum. Lastly ,reserve talking and playing with your baby during the day time as a first time parent. In handling a newborn child as a first time parent you may develop and practice a routine that will assist you in parenting.

August 25, 2020 12:55

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