Toxic relationships and other great life

"Suddenly the unexpected happened

 Emotional disaster followed by real achievement"

I am now a university student. I will take you with me to a terrifying past time for me and also my starting point for my goals to be achieved from there. I was really not good at comparing real relationships to fake toxic ones. I had many relationships such as friends who considered my family and other past friendly relationships

In 2016, my father was exposed to one of the terrifying accidents that caused his heart diseases. I was feeling very bad, afraid and anxious about the news of losing my father. I needed someone to stand beside me while I was in this terrifying state, and I was on the verge of choosing a study path that would determine my future fate.

But I haven't found any of the dozens of friends around me .. Really fake friends

Then I thought a lot about saving my future destiny because it is the only one I can save. As for my father. Only God can do that. It started away from my toxic relationships. Only by myself I determined my scientific inclinations and chose the scientific path. One of the fakes came .. telling me that you cannot do that. There are difficult circumstances around you. Think again.

I replied, saying .. God does not place the most difficult battles except for the most powerful soldiers. I passed the circumstances far and made my fateful decisions, and I did not need you. Actually now I don't need to hear your opinion. I can complete this....

Here was the point of my liberation from those relationships.

In 2017 and 2018 .. I felt great energy inside of me, not surrounded by negative people and toxic people.. Only me and my goals .. My father traveled for treatment and my mother is with him too. I became responsible for my brothers and the house and other affairs

I was not weak in reality .. because I believe that I am one of the mighty soldiers of God.. Also, I was not one of the top students, but that's okay. This was not one of my goals.

In 2019 I graduated from high school with the percentage that I had planned .. and was accepted to the university I want and the major I want..

The goal of the internal mission was achieved as I wanted .. I now have a small house for me and my private life away from fake relationships . Actually I really needed a lot of time for myself. Away from everything. To see what I have achieved and what is there to achieve it. And some rest.

TODAY

Then I got to know a real friend with whom I could go forward .. and achieve more

I learned life skills from her. She is also a good nurse and teaches me how to be good on my path. I learned how to be on time, haha

I have a student company specialized in design, my relationship with the employees is wonderful. Also now I am a researcher in neurosurgery.

We have to be good at choosing friends and arranging relationships around us. The surrounding environment will positively and positively affect our choices. We do not have to let circumstances control us. We can all become the person we want with our effort. Do not wait for someone to come and hold your hand to walk you in the way of achieving your goals. You have to do it yourself. As for the others, they will only clap and break the ceiling of dreams. The first will happen when you achieve what you want by yourself and are tired. The other is when you are waiting for someone to come and hold your hand.

As for relationships, we can skip toxic and fake relationships. And also set limits for it like I did. We should not be afraid that our lives will be without friends. Life should only have true friends, not the fakes. So that life becomes happy. But if you collect fake friends around you so that it is not said that you like loneliness or that you are mentally ill and have social problems. In fact, many situations will happen, and you will come back broken and sad and alone. There is nothing in that situation but tears and sad music. Those who classify those without friends, such as psychopaths or have social problems, will not be by your side at the time. So save yourself and get out of the miserable circle of society and get up to achieve what you want.

In preparation for attending an international conference, I am 17 years old. And the youngest person will attend. One of the organizers told me what do you have to be here? I answered him with a lot of confidence. Actually yes I have a lot.

At the same time I met with the head of the scientific research department. In order to be able to travel to attend the conference, I had a lot of fear from this step, but I had a voice saying: "You can do it. The head of the scientific research department told me that he is proud of the energy in me and my success and sees in the future that I have a great position in this country."

The meeting was more than that. I got positive energy and stronger motivation. I believe that what I am doing now is a pathway to becoming the person I planned. And I am proud of myself before others are proud of me. And I would be a good example for people who did not give up despite everything. In one of the interviews with a volunteer team in Malaysia, the team leader told me why don't you write a book about your life .. We laughed at the time and I replied, I am 18 years old, there is more and more to come. "I will not write a book about myself, but someone will come who will write books about me."